Even the love is fake in this world!

We often say the money is not life and we must stop running behind the money, but dear friends is the love and peace are enough true in this world?

We suppose you stopped earning the money and you have left with an empty wallet to help your girlfriend and she must not be holding the hand for long.

And the love is not fair enough to justify her that you have more than this universe.She will not be convinced that you have millions of stars than millions of bucks in pocket. After all you need the same love as the millions of bucks like millions stars in the sky.

Ok, let us assume you are lost all your sense and have much of your health going down everyday.Your way of connecting to her stopped for few days and she is happy without you. Those words she spoke to you and promises will not remind her that still there is love. Because when one goes through an unfortunate time, the other person cease to love you anymore. This is common for both parties.

So love is not enough and you need money too!!! Chase the money and then chase the love…
Love without money and life, is like planting trees in a desert!!
There is no true in this world but there is true money that give you everything!!

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Soul mates – Part V: A mathematical study of how many soul mates you have on this earth

This is my last post on the Soul Mates Research. I had no idea of soul mate before starting of this research and now I am back to the state where I was. I explain why!

What is soul mate? – The people around say there is one soul which was created for you.

If you are the one thinking the same, stop it!

If you have one soul for you on the earth which is same as like yours, then the 50% of the people on the earth would be the soul mates of the other  50%, which seems to be a funny idea.

                “So, what I have understood from my studies is that two souls can be considered as soul mates if they together want to achieve/fulfill each other’s purpose on the earth.”

The total no of people on the earth while I write this document is 7,300,757,312.

As stated by United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs, Population Division and the world population is projected to reach 7.325 billion in July 2015.

Males and Females percentage is 50.4% and 49.6% respectively.

None of the religion talk about soul mates, rather they give more importance to the single soul. All of them try to elevate the each soul to the next level and give them a better place on the earth.

World mythologies , yes they talk a lot about the soul mates as I described in the Part II of this series.

Psychologists they just give opinions  based on the surveys, which is basically the idea of the people.

There is no soul which exactly same as you or me, but there might be a 99.99% matching soul. Though this soul is matching yours , it might not help you achieve your purpose.

Out of 7,300,757,312 souls, that is 1.369720916974373e-8 % or 0.00000001369720916974373% is the percentage of people on the earth whom you are looking for. Still do you believe that you can meet that person?

But we can make some calculation to find out the number of soul mates for each soul on the earth. Remember , each soul can have many soul mates, not only one. If you believe in only one soul mate you are with the above percentage of people and don’t move on, you are free to go and search for that 0.00000001369720916974373% of people on the earth which I believe impossible on this birth.

There are many hypothesis to calculate the best match for your soul, but they relate to love. Soul mates not necessarily to be in romantic relationship that is the reason why I don’t want to use those hypotheses here.

Let us assume that each soul mate shares  some preferences / characters common to its soul mate.

  1. You want to meet every person for at least 1 seconds to decide if he/she is your soul mate.

Totally you need 7,300,757,312 seconds which is 231.35197997422 years on the earth.

Do you think you can live 231 years on the earth?

Check your average age of your country and let’s limit the soul mate calculation within your age limit.

Life expectancy of the world population varies from  85  years to  38 years.

Considering  that you live to the max age of 85 years,

231 years will be split into 231/85 =  2.717647058823529 times  where the whole population also can be split into 2.717647058823529 times.

So you will be able to meet only 7,300,757,312/2.717647058823529  =  2686425850 people on the earth in the 85 years of your life.

2686425850 people into seconds into years  =  85 Years! , the highest life expectancy of the people on the earth!

  1. To further filter the people to meet your soul mate, Let us do this way,

You can define the number of characters/preferences  you expect in your soul mate.

Preferences p  =  It might be 1,2,3,4,……n  of characters/preferences.

You have p no of characters and you expect ‘k’ no people.

No of people matching your preferences  =  k

p = no of preferences, k = no of people who meet your demands

Assuming all the people have the same no of preferences, we have to find out a solution to match the demands to each other and find out the best matches.

Using Binary logarithm of mathematics, where we assume the people in 2 dimensional array, we can find out the number of matching soul mates ,

: n+k*n = n*log2(k*n)

n = 2686425850 , no of people you have to meet in the 85 years of your life.

Solving this equation gives the value of ‘k’ as 35.4716 which can be taken as whole value of 35!

So you have 35 soul mates on the earth which can you meet in 85 years among the 2686425850 people.

We considered people as two dimensional data because each person has their own no of preferences and the person who seeking soul mate has his own set of preference which has to be compared against each person in 2686425850.

There are lot of assumptions in the solution! So it’s up to you accept it. Will catch you with some other new topic soon!

Soul Mates – Part IV:The Psychologist’s View

Hello Friends,

Here is the version IV of my soul mate – search report. This report doesn’t give any surprises to me as I had in the last report.

This time I am analysing the soul mates, how the psychologists define the soul mates based on their research.

Considering Aristophanes theory ,he is not a psychologist (he was a playwright and director), each soul has an exact other soul on the earth.

Psychologists claim that well educated people do not typically believe in the concept of the soul mate. People like to favour a well-suited partner rather than soul mate.

The Siemens Festival Nights conducted a survey with 2000 people and found that,

  • One in seven believed to be not with their love.
  • An average person has fallen head over heels in love just twice in their life and has been left heartbroken once.
  • An unfortunate one in 20 adults has been heartbroken more than 5 times in their life.
  • For about 60% of the people in the interview said they took more than 10 weeks to know that they are in love.
  • Women are tending to fall in love more than men.
  • Nearly 75% of the people in the poll say that the love changes when they get older

The soul mate is not a real person rather it is assumed to exist within our imagination. And many of the people have had to learn that their search for a soul mate drew them into unsatisfying and dysfunctional relationships.

Dr. Ted Hudson of the University of Texas, ran a longitudinal study of couples who had been married for years and in his research he found out something quite surprising.

Dr. Ted Hudson explains, “My research shows that there is no difference in the objective compatibility between those couples who are unhappy and those who are happy”.

Dr. Ted Hudson went on to say that couples who were feeling happy said that compatibility wasn’t an issue for them. In fact, they were perfectly ok saying that it was them who made the relationship work not the compatibility. But unhappy people went on to say that compatibility is extremely important in their relationship and they dint feel compatible with their significant one.

This study doesn’t give me any interesting facts to me except the repeated survey of psychologists. So I can conclude that there is no such person like soulmate, who just exists only on the imagination.

My own survey from my blog, I have the below result.

soulmates

Courtesy:

https://www.psychologytoday.com

http://www.learning-mind.com

Soul Mates –Part III: A Spiritual Study

The previous posts can be accessed here

Hinduism

According to Hinduism, marriage is defined as two souls which comes together and unite with each other in spirit and that make a perfect marriage. The more strongly they become united, they concentrate less on sex.

The more they are in love with each, they become united with God.

As stated in the holy book of Hindus, Srimad Bhagavat Gita, by Lord Krishna,

Chapter 2, verse 22

                vasamsi jirnani yatha vihaya navani grhnati naro’parani

                tatha sarirani vihaya jirnany anyani samyati navani dehi

 

Translation

“As a person gives up old and worn out garments and accepts new apparel, similarly the embodied soul giving up old and worn out bodies verily accepts new bodies.”

So the soul neither be created nor be destroyed.  It’s just the two souls united at the marriage and work toward to accomplish the purpose needed by each other.

Buddhism

Contradict to the Hinduism; Buddhist doctrine rejects the idea of an immortal soul.  Also, it clearly states that there is no concept of soul.

I just noted this point here as it is one of the biggest religion followed by many, and I don’t want go in depth analysis on this as it’s not relevant to this analysis.

Christianity

In the New Testament, the Greek word for “soul” is transliterated as psuche or psyche.

Psuche denotes one’s inner life or actual personhood. God, who has created the “soul,” can also destroy it.

Jesus said: “Be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell” (Matthew 10:28).

Here, Jesus differentiated between the “soul” and the body. “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul,” he said (verse 28). His words indicate that while the body is corrupted at death, the “soul” continues on, though both “soul” and body can end in soul-destroying hell.

So the soul is considered to be there on the earth as well as on the Hell or Heaven. But that considered to a mortal one.

Jainism

Jainism believes in the existence of the soul from human to plants and even the micro organisms like bacteria and viruses.

The basic concept of this religion is based on the existence of the soul. And they classify the soul into two categories.

  1. Liberated Souls: The souls that attained the Moksha, and which will not be part of lifecycle again.

Moksha (Sanskrit language):  emancipation, liberation or release from the birth and death life cycle.

  1. Non-Liberated Souls – The soul which are struck in the lifecycle based on the karma of the individual soul. There is no start and end of the soul.

According to Jainism , the soul is eternal and just changes the bodies till it attains the moksha. The concept of the soul is similar to the Hinduism.

Judaism

In modern Judaism, the soul is considered to be a thing given to the person upon his first breath.

And it relates the closeness of a person to God, which is based on the quality of the soul with one’s performance of the commandments.

Sikhism

Sikhism considers the soul as an integral part of the God and the God within the soul. Once the soul departs from the body, it becomes lifeless  and the soul is believed to be the driver of this body.

Out of many oldest religions in the world, four religions came from India namely, Hinduism and the subset of this religion, Sikhism, Jainism and Buddhism.

Among the four Indian religions only one religion,the Buddhism, contradicts to the soul concept and this is the only religion in the world that doesn’t believe in the existence of the soul. All the other religions except this religion, believe in the existence of the soul and they have their own descriptions and the closeness of the soul to the God.

What makes you to read a post?

We see thousands of blogs and millions of posts, and we really feel hard to select which blog to follow and which post on that to read. We at times simply like post reading a few lines of the post..but we all have different things that make us read a post..

share your thoughts what really makes you read a post?

RIP People’s President: Bharat Ratna Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam

She lost her missile man,
The true patriot of her peninsular landscape,
Born at the south,
He saved the sovereignty from the west,
He lead his children from the north,
He sacrificed his life from the east,
At last he rest in peace on the hands,
Of the God,
His dreams,
His wings of fire are fluttering with us,
His ignited minds are we,
The luminous sparks been planted in our hearts,
The hands left us a manifesto for change,
He urged to forge our future,
The turning points he made us to draw,
He poured the light on us to blossom,
Envisioned an empowered nation,
He will live in his inspiring thoughts,
The reignited indomitable spirit he left,
Will continue his journey,
To empower three billion people,
The mission India he made,
Will accomplish the target he dreamed.

Note:
From 11th line, each line has the name of  Bharat Ratna Dr.APJ Abdul Kalam’s books name.

A day to Moon – a duet #1

This is a first duet written in collaboration with Subbashini Meenakshi Sundaram

In search of peace
In search of freshness
In search of purity

Me: We walk to the moon,
Like a phoenix to the Sun,
Until we burn to ashes,

In search of wisdom
In search of true souls
As we spoiled our gifted earth

Me: We are in happy flight,
We are sure of plight,
We should walk there right.

Moon was not bright
It want us to smash our mask and be right
It blessed ‘ you can be as you like’

Me: Not easy as you think friend,
We are landing darkness of life,
Let the Sun enlighten with us Moon.