Your eyes are the liars

You gaze at me like a pointed gun,
I never waged war against a paisan,
Thy eyes swallowed me like a drop of water-
Caging the full moon on its kisser;
I am imprisoned inside your pupils-
without breaking the eyelids.
Don’t ever accuse me for tormenting,
Your heart and soul.
O, My angel I feel secured,
You not jailed me though,
To save me from dust and ash,
I feel warmth of love, and tears,
Feeling dual love in my life, when
You birthed me two times in your eyes.

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Even the love is fake in this world!

We often say the money is not life and we must stop running behind the money, but dear friends is the love and peace are enough true in this world?

We suppose you stopped earning the money and you have left with an empty wallet to help your girlfriend and she must not be holding the hand for long.

And the love is not fair enough to justify her that you have more than this universe.She will not be convinced that you have millions of stars than millions of bucks in pocket. After all you need the same love as the millions of bucks like millions stars in the sky.

Ok, let us assume you are lost all your sense and have much of your health going down everyday.Your way of connecting to her stopped for few days and she is happy without you. Those words she spoke to you and promises will not remind her that still there is love. Because when one goes through an unfortunate time, the other person cease to love you anymore. This is common for both parties.

So love is not enough and you need money too!!! Chase the money and then chase the love…
Love without money and life, is like planting trees in a desert!!
There is no true in this world but there is true money that give you everything!!

Soul mates – Part V: A mathematical study of how many soul mates you have on this earth

This is my last post on the Soul Mates Research. I had no idea of soul mate before starting of this research and now I am back to the state where I was. I explain why!

What is soul mate? – The people around say there is one soul which was created for you.

If you are the one thinking the same, stop it!

If you have one soul for you on the earth which is same as like yours, then the 50% of the people on the earth would be the soul mates of the other  50%, which seems to be a funny idea.

                “So, what I have understood from my studies is that two souls can be considered as soul mates if they together want to achieve/fulfill each other’s purpose on the earth.”

The total no of people on the earth while I write this document is 7,300,757,312.

As stated by United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs, Population Division and the world population is projected to reach 7.325 billion in July 2015.

Males and Females percentage is 50.4% and 49.6% respectively.

None of the religion talk about soul mates, rather they give more importance to the single soul. All of them try to elevate the each soul to the next level and give them a better place on the earth.

World mythologies , yes they talk a lot about the soul mates as I described in the Part II of this series.

Psychologists they just give opinions  based on the surveys, which is basically the idea of the people.

There is no soul which exactly same as you or me, but there might be a 99.99% matching soul. Though this soul is matching yours , it might not help you achieve your purpose.

Out of 7,300,757,312 souls, that is 1.369720916974373e-8 % or 0.00000001369720916974373% is the percentage of people on the earth whom you are looking for. Still do you believe that you can meet that person?

But we can make some calculation to find out the number of soul mates for each soul on the earth. Remember , each soul can have many soul mates, not only one. If you believe in only one soul mate you are with the above percentage of people and don’t move on, you are free to go and search for that 0.00000001369720916974373% of people on the earth which I believe impossible on this birth.

There are many hypothesis to calculate the best match for your soul, but they relate to love. Soul mates not necessarily to be in romantic relationship that is the reason why I don’t want to use those hypotheses here.

Let us assume that each soul mate shares  some preferences / characters common to its soul mate.

  1. You want to meet every person for at least 1 seconds to decide if he/she is your soul mate.

Totally you need 7,300,757,312 seconds which is 231.35197997422 years on the earth.

Do you think you can live 231 years on the earth?

Check your average age of your country and let’s limit the soul mate calculation within your age limit.

Life expectancy of the world population varies from  85  years to  38 years.

Considering  that you live to the max age of 85 years,

231 years will be split into 231/85 =  2.717647058823529 times  where the whole population also can be split into 2.717647058823529 times.

So you will be able to meet only 7,300,757,312/2.717647058823529  =  2686425850 people on the earth in the 85 years of your life.

2686425850 people into seconds into years  =  85 Years! , the highest life expectancy of the people on the earth!

  1. To further filter the people to meet your soul mate, Let us do this way,

You can define the number of characters/preferences  you expect in your soul mate.

Preferences p  =  It might be 1,2,3,4,……n  of characters/preferences.

You have p no of characters and you expect ‘k’ no people.

No of people matching your preferences  =  k

p = no of preferences, k = no of people who meet your demands

Assuming all the people have the same no of preferences, we have to find out a solution to match the demands to each other and find out the best matches.

Using Binary logarithm of mathematics, where we assume the people in 2 dimensional array, we can find out the number of matching soul mates ,

: n+k*n = n*log2(k*n)

n = 2686425850 , no of people you have to meet in the 85 years of your life.

Solving this equation gives the value of ‘k’ as 35.4716 which can be taken as whole value of 35!

So you have 35 soul mates on the earth which can you meet in 85 years among the 2686425850 people.

We considered people as two dimensional data because each person has their own no of preferences and the person who seeking soul mate has his own set of preference which has to be compared against each person in 2686425850.

There are lot of assumptions in the solution! So it’s up to you accept it. Will catch you with some other new topic soon!

Soul Mates – Part IV:The Psychologist’s View

Hello Friends,

Here is the version IV of my soul mate – search report. This report doesn’t give any surprises to me as I had in the last report.

This time I am analysing the soul mates, how the psychologists define the soul mates based on their research.

Considering Aristophanes theory ,he is not a psychologist (he was a playwright and director), each soul has an exact other soul on the earth.

Psychologists claim that well educated people do not typically believe in the concept of the soul mate. People like to favour a well-suited partner rather than soul mate.

The Siemens Festival Nights conducted a survey with 2000 people and found that,

  • One in seven believed to be not with their love.
  • An average person has fallen head over heels in love just twice in their life and has been left heartbroken once.
  • An unfortunate one in 20 adults has been heartbroken more than 5 times in their life.
  • For about 60% of the people in the interview said they took more than 10 weeks to know that they are in love.
  • Women are tending to fall in love more than men.
  • Nearly 75% of the people in the poll say that the love changes when they get older

The soul mate is not a real person rather it is assumed to exist within our imagination. And many of the people have had to learn that their search for a soul mate drew them into unsatisfying and dysfunctional relationships.

Dr. Ted Hudson of the University of Texas, ran a longitudinal study of couples who had been married for years and in his research he found out something quite surprising.

Dr. Ted Hudson explains, “My research shows that there is no difference in the objective compatibility between those couples who are unhappy and those who are happy”.

Dr. Ted Hudson went on to say that couples who were feeling happy said that compatibility wasn’t an issue for them. In fact, they were perfectly ok saying that it was them who made the relationship work not the compatibility. But unhappy people went on to say that compatibility is extremely important in their relationship and they dint feel compatible with their significant one.

This study doesn’t give me any interesting facts to me except the repeated survey of psychologists. So I can conclude that there is no such person like soulmate, who just exists only on the imagination.

My own survey from my blog, I have the below result.

soulmates

Courtesy:

https://www.psychologytoday.com

http://www.learning-mind.com

Soul Mates – Part I: A Logical Analysis

Recently I read many articles in blogs and social forums about the soul mates. I was using the term just as everyone and when I recently met some nice friends I felt if I have found my soul mate. Then I came up with the questions and I was really confused if I am wrong and started to google out to find some thoughts about the soul mates.

  • Does this concept of soul mates logical? Rational?
  • Can we believe that this logic exists?
  • Where to and How to find my soul mate?
  • How can we test a best friend if she/ he is my soul mate?
  • Do my soul mate born on the same date I born? or she/he born after I born?
  • Do we have same age? Same Date of birth?
  • How many soul mates I can have? Is only one?
  • When the soul mates find each other, Are they become one?

I have come up with below points to believe that there is a chance to exist the idea of soul mates.

Reason 1: Personal Experience

  • I know a person who had the behaviour of not allowing anyone to call him as stupid, idiot, fool, etc.
  • He never allowed any girl to talk to him.
  • He never go out with a girl and he never allow them to get into his space.
  • He is not an antifeminist or gay either.
  • He never broke down on any circumstances.
  • But suddenly he was attracted to a girl, he talks for long, he go out to see her , he waits for her for hours, he let her call me stupid, he let her call him idiot etc.
  • He cries for her if he don’t hear from her.
  • He says she is the one who can turn him into anything.

What does this mean? Really soul mates exist? I got my first point of 10% to believe in this idea.

Reason 2: What Psychologists say?

  • Communication between two soul mates without speaking to each other
    • They may finish other’s sentence without speaking to each other
    • They may have the same dream on the same time
    • They do activities at the same time without being communicated to each other
    • A sense or recognition of the person whom you never met

You suddenly feel that you have met this person some time ago, or you feel something connected to each other

  • Physical touch

You feel something that  takes you for the years and makes a feeling a fond of love, that creates a momentary change in you and that makes you feel both connected in some ways.

  •  Comfortable in all the ways
    • You both are in comfortable in any circumstances
    • You both see the same world through two eyes
    • You both perceive the same idea with two minds
    • You both think of same solution for the same issue

……..the list goes on.

I may be writing more on this topic in future and still my research is not completed.

Basically this is my idea and what I learnt about Soul mates.

Friends, I will be delighted to know more from your comments.

The Power of her smile

She broke my heart into pieces,
Her words pierced from back to chest,
I was holding my rolling tears,
Her fiery glances killed it’s worst,

She came back with lenient smile,
Broken pieces of my heart-
Born as a new gift.

She came back with a confessing smile,
Chopped body merged into-
An eternal melting torso.

She came back with a lusting smile,
Tears rolled back onto eyes,
Tasted like a sweetened grapes.

Moments are to remember

Walking hands in hand,
On the flurry sand,
Whispering like a honeybee,
While mating under moonlight.
Playing music in veins-
A caress from the head to toe.
Chuckling like silent sea wave,
Resting head upon the chest.
Talking stories of secret thoughts,
We register the stanzas to recite.
A memory book created –
Moments to remember.