Recently I read many articles in blogs and social forums about the soul mates. I was using the term just as everyone and when I recently met some nice friends I felt if I have found my soul mate. Then I came up with the questions and I was really confused if I am wrong and started to google out to find some thoughts about the soul mates.
- Does this concept of soul mates logical? Rational?
- Can we believe that this logic exists?
- Where to and How to find my soul mate?
- How can we test a best friend if she/ he is my soul mate?
- Do my soul mate born on the same date I born? or she/he born after I born?
- Do we have same age? Same Date of birth?
- How many soul mates I can have? Is only one?
- When the soul mates find each other, Are they become one?
I have come up with below points to believe that there is a chance to exist the idea of soul mates.
Reason 1: Personal Experience
- I know a person who had the behaviour of not allowing anyone to call him as stupid, idiot, fool, etc.
- He never allowed any girl to talk to him.
- He never go out with a girl and he never allow them to get into his space.
- He is not an antifeminist or gay either.
- He never broke down on any circumstances.
- But suddenly he was attracted to a girl, he talks for long, he go out to see her , he waits for her for hours, he let her call me stupid, he let her call him idiot etc.
- He cries for her if he don’t hear from her.
- He says she is the one who can turn him into anything.
What does this mean? Really soul mates exist? I got my first point of 10% to believe in this idea.
Reason 2: What Psychologists say?
- Communication between two soul mates without speaking to each other
- They may finish other’s sentence without speaking to each other
- They may have the same dream on the same time
- They do activities at the same time without being communicated to each other
- A sense or recognition of the person whom you never met
You suddenly feel that you have met this person some time ago, or you feel something connected to each other
- Physical touch
You feel something that takes you for the years and makes a feeling a fond of love, that creates a momentary change in you and that makes you feel both connected in some ways.
- Comfortable in all the ways
- You both are in comfortable in any circumstances
- You both see the same world through two eyes
- You both perceive the same idea with two minds
- You both think of same solution for the same issue
……..the list goes on.
I may be writing more on this topic in future and still my research is not completed.
Basically this is my idea and what I learnt about Soul mates.
Friends, I will be delighted to know more from your comments.