This is just a brief summary of the book of
Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Indeed this is a must read book for anyone who wanna build up a great people around. I read this book some 15 years ago and I still feel the freshness and it helped me a lot to grow as a happy man. So I just feel to share this with you guys.
- Be genuinely interested in other people. And never show your hatred to them
- Be a good listener of other person. This really works well, let him talk and then you start.
- Respect other person’s interests and opinions
- Be truthful to others and accept your mistakes
- Be sympathetic with other’s ideas
- Try to thank the other person and make him feel important
- Never get into a hot discussion or argument and try avoiding it
- Give honest appreciation and comments
Dear Politico, we are not fighting against-
The aliens of mankind;
Polluting the mother nature by blood,
Make us feel raping the own siblings,
Rational mind is tortured to death,
We all throwing stones of our future,
It’s the hell we are building to rest.
We all struggle to live up in peace with the surrounding restless world.
There is no peace anywhere, we gotta run in the race of life, to live with the people around you.
If we stop for a day we are at most extinct state of being and we will end up in mess.
So what can we do to keep in peace of mind and life.
#1. Do What makes you happy
#2. Listen to your heart not the people around you
#3. Be alone and feel yourself and love thyself
#4. Empathize with people around but don’t fall in prey
#5. Do meditate your thoughts
Satan is filled with weapons,
God is left with empty hands,
People are left stranded!
ஓட்டுக்களை எண்ணும் ,
We are stripped in anyway,
Peeled every layer of our skin,
Banana fruits on the democracy.
There are 4 types of people around me whom I like most.They are,
1. Just think – dreamers
These types of people I don’t often meet or I have never meet and still they make me love them more.They are poets and scientists ( for me only those two kind of people make me feel happy when I just think of them). I don’t even need to meet them personally to get inspired or love them.
2. Just see – saviours
People who make me feel happy when I just see them, those are some of well wishers, good hearted people, who never care of money, never care of their status, never care of their position, never care of their life on the earth. They are sages, saints, social workers, and whoever sacrifice their lives.
3. Just talk – givers
People who make me feel happy when I just talk to them. Most of them are my college friends, teachers, and professors.
4. All rounders
Only handful of people who will make me feel happy and better in all the ways said above,
- when I just see them
- when I just talk to them
- when I just think of them
They are the persons behind my success, behind my life, behind every step of my leg
My mum, my dad, my sister(s) and my brother(s), and finally my sweet heart!
Share your opinions who makes you feel better and who fall in these categories 🙂