Soul Mates – Part I: A Logical Analysis

Recently I read many articles in blogs and social forums about the soul mates. I was using the term just as everyone and when I recently met some nice friends I felt if I have found my soul mate. Then I came up with the questions and I was really confused if I am wrong and started to google out to find some thoughts about the soul mates.

  • Does this concept of soul mates logical? Rational?
  • Can we believe that this logic exists?
  • Where to and How to find my soul mate?
  • How can we test a best friend if she/ he is my soul mate?
  • Do my soul mate born on the same date I born? or she/he born after I born?
  • Do we have same age? Same Date of birth?
  • How many soul mates I can have? Is only one?
  • When the soul mates find each other, Are they become one?

I have come up with below points to believe that there is a chance to exist the idea of soul mates.

Reason 1: Personal Experience

  • I know a person who had the behaviour of not allowing anyone to call him as stupid, idiot, fool, etc.
  • He never allowed any girl to talk to him.
  • He never go out with a girl and he never allow them to get into his space.
  • He is not an antifeminist or gay either.
  • He never broke down on any circumstances.
  • But suddenly he was attracted to a girl, he talks for long, he go out to see her , he waits for her for hours, he let her call me stupid, he let her call him idiot etc.
  • He cries for her if he don’t hear from her.
  • He says she is the one who can turn him into anything.

What does this mean? Really soul mates exist? I got my first point of 10% to believe in this idea.

Reason 2: What Psychologists say?

  • Communication between two soul mates without speaking to each other
    • They may finish other’s sentence without speaking to each other
    • They may have the same dream on the same time
    • They do activities at the same time without being communicated to each other
    • A sense or recognition of the person whom you never met

You suddenly feel that you have met this person some time ago, or you feel something connected to each other

  • Physical touch

You feel something that  takes you for the years and makes a feeling a fond of love, that creates a momentary change in you and that makes you feel both connected in some ways.

  •  Comfortable in all the ways
    • You both are in comfortable in any circumstances
    • You both see the same world through two eyes
    • You both perceive the same idea with two minds
    • You both think of same solution for the same issue

……..the list goes on.

I may be writing more on this topic in future and still my research is not completed.

Basically this is my idea and what I learnt about Soul mates.

Friends, I will be delighted to know more from your comments.