This is just a brief summary of the book of
Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People.
Indeed this is a must read book for anyone who wanna build up a great people around. I read this book some 15 years ago and I still feel the freshness and it helped me a lot to grow as a happy man. So I just feel to share this with you guys.
- Be genuinely interested in other people. And never show your hatred to them
- Be a good listener of other person. This really works well, let him talk and then you start.
- Respect other person’s interests and opinions
- Be truthful to others and accept your mistakes
- Be sympathetic with other’s ideas
- Try to thank the other person and make him feel important
- Never get into a hot discussion or argument and try avoiding it
- Give honest appreciation and comments
He twisted the whip against her plait,
She fell on his lap as a bestie,
He took her on his chest,
Consoled the her desires.
Talked for hours and played like babies ,
They are best pals in heart,
Yet, time has come to end the story,
They are dusts in the time,
Memories will speak the lures he inseminated.
At the bottom of my heart,
A hairline of crack splits,
The arteries and veins,and
Writes a story which break my eyes,
Arteries carry the oxygenated air- that
She passed thru the kisses,
Veins that lacks her breathe,
A crack narrates a story,
To love her from my arteries.
A true friend always hurt you and if your friend not try to correct your mistakes, he might be betraying you!
We all struggle to live up in peace with the surrounding restless world.
There is no peace anywhere, we gotta run in the race of life, to live with the people around you.
If we stop for a day we are at most extinct state of being and we will end up in mess.
So what can we do to keep in peace of mind and life.
#1. Do What makes you happy
#2. Listen to your heart not the people around you
#3. Be alone and feel yourself and love thyself
#4. Empathize with people around but don’t fall in prey
#5. Do meditate your thoughts
Hey guys, hope you are all doing fine, as I posted recently to start up a blogging community, I opened up a new blog https://virutalfriends.wordpress.com/.
Well, really I appreciate all your support and we have 5 members in the team and we are actively participating and writing on this blog.
“Individual commitment to a group effort–that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.” –Vince Lombardi
As said, we are dreaming of growing into at least a 50 Authors blogging community with common goal. I really appreciate the blogging friends who joined with me and wish them a good luck!
The news of a friend in paper,
A good friend as a book ,
Best friend as history in heart,
Lovers need thoughts in heart,
Rays in their longing sight, no words,
To pierce their hearts.