We all are having time a time that we cross someone who scintillates for a moment. We don’t stop it there but sometimes we get into a relationship that ends with a love. But, alas! God has a different plan and makes us go weird of our minds and we make fights and fights for days. We grow possessiveness as much as we can and one fine day, we tend to say good bye to each other…or something might be a reason to break up the bond….and do you have any such story to share and make us cry? why not ? go on..
Hello friends , it has been long time I posted anything on my blog. I really appreciate your time and support.
I was not really feeling great to write anything and now I feel I am getting normal. Thanks for being connected through blog.
I was just reading some articles and got a thought who does really fall in love quickly ? whether a girl or a boy..Guys never take a time to fall in love. They either fall in love with the beauty of the girl or her smile. Or with her voice and care. Yes the tone of her voice soothes the heart and makes the guy to melt in her care. And he takes no time to fall in love with her.
He never analyse about her parents or social status. He never give a thought if she is in love with someone or she hates love. He simply fall in love with her. He might take time to convey her of his love but certainly he doesn’t take time.
But believe me , girls will take time to fall in love with any guy. They will look his all aspects of life before take a decision. For girls safety and security of her life is more important, but to guys her beauty and care is much more important. And guys can breakup and pass on to someone else, but they never forget those memories of his love.
Guys what do you feel about the love and whom do you think really makes a decision so fast?
This is my last post on the Soul Mates Research. I had no idea of soul mate before starting of this research and now I am back to the state where I was. I explain why!
What is soul mate? – The people around say there is one soul which was created for you.
If you are the one thinking the same, stop it!
If you have one soul for you on the earth which is same as like yours, then the 50% of the people on the earth would be the soul mates of the other 50%, which seems to be a funny idea.
“So, what I have understood from my studies is that two souls can be considered as soul mates if they together want to achieve/fulfill each other’s purpose on the earth.”
The total no of people on the earth while I write this document is 7,300,757,312.
As stated by United Nations Department of Economic and Social Affairs, Population Division and the world population is projected to reach 7.325 billion in July 2015.
Males and Females percentage is 50.4% and 49.6% respectively.
None of the religion talk about soul mates, rather they give more importance to the single soul. All of them try to elevate the each soul to the next level and give them a better place on the earth.
World mythologies , yes they talk a lot about the soul mates as I described in the Part II of this series.
Psychologists they just give opinions based on the surveys, which is basically the idea of the people.
There is no soul which exactly same as you or me, but there might be a 99.99% matching soul. Though this soul is matching yours , it might not help you achieve your purpose.
Out of 7,300,757,312 souls, that is 1.369720916974373e-8 % or 0.00000001369720916974373% is the percentage of people on the earth whom you are looking for. Still do you believe that you can meet that person?
But we can make some calculation to find out the number of soul mates for each soul on the earth. Remember , each soul can have many soul mates, not only one. If you believe in only one soul mate you are with the above percentage of people and don’t move on, you are free to go and search for that 0.00000001369720916974373% of people on the earth which I believe impossible on this birth.
There are many hypothesis to calculate the best match for your soul, but they relate to love. Soul mates not necessarily to be in romantic relationship that is the reason why I don’t want to use those hypotheses here.
Let us assume that each soul mate shares some preferences / characters common to its soul mate.
- You want to meet every person for at least 1 seconds to decide if he/she is your soul mate.
Totally you need 7,300,757,312 seconds which is 231.35197997422 years on the earth.
Do you think you can live 231 years on the earth?
Check your average age of your country and let’s limit the soul mate calculation within your age limit.
Life expectancy of the world population varies from 85 years to 38 years.
Considering that you live to the max age of 85 years,
231 years will be split into 231/85 = 2.717647058823529 times where the whole population also can be split into 2.717647058823529 times.
So you will be able to meet only 7,300,757,312/2.717647058823529 = 2686425850 people on the earth in the 85 years of your life.
2686425850 people into seconds into years = 85 Years! , the highest life expectancy of the people on the earth!
- To further filter the people to meet your soul mate, Let us do this way,
You can define the number of characters/preferences you expect in your soul mate.
Preferences p = It might be 1,2,3,4,……n of characters/preferences.
You have p no of characters and you expect ‘k’ no people.
No of people matching your preferences = k
p = no of preferences, k = no of people who meet your demands
Assuming all the people have the same no of preferences, we have to find out a solution to match the demands to each other and find out the best matches.
Using Binary logarithm of mathematics, where we assume the people in 2 dimensional array, we can find out the number of matching soul mates ,
: n+k*n = n*log2(k*n)
n = 2686425850 , no of people you have to meet in the 85 years of your life.
Solving this equation gives the value of ‘k’ as 35.4716 which can be taken as whole value of 35!
So you have 35 soul mates on the earth which can you meet in 85 years among the 2686425850 people.
We considered people as two dimensional data because each person has their own no of preferences and the person who seeking soul mate has his own set of preference which has to be compared against each person in 2686425850.
There are lot of assumptions in the solution! So it’s up to you accept it. Will catch you with some other new topic soon!
Here is the version IV of my soul mate – search report. This report doesn’t give any surprises to me as I had in the last report.
This time I am analysing the soul mates, how the psychologists define the soul mates based on their research.
Considering Aristophanes theory ,he is not a psychologist (he was a playwright and director), each soul has an exact other soul on the earth.
Psychologists claim that well educated people do not typically believe in the concept of the soul mate. People like to favour a well-suited partner rather than soul mate.
The Siemens Festival Nights conducted a survey with 2000 people and found that,
- One in seven believed to be not with their love.
- An average person has fallen head over heels in love just twice in their life and has been left heartbroken once.
- An unfortunate one in 20 adults has been heartbroken more than 5 times in their life.
- For about 60% of the people in the interview said they took more than 10 weeks to know that they are in love.
- Women are tending to fall in love more than men.
- Nearly 75% of the people in the poll say that the love changes when they get older
The soul mate is not a real person rather it is assumed to exist within our imagination. And many of the people have had to learn that their search for a soul mate drew them into unsatisfying and dysfunctional relationships.
Dr. Ted Hudson of the University of Texas, ran a longitudinal study of couples who had been married for years and in his research he found out something quite surprising.
Dr. Ted Hudson explains, “My research shows that there is no difference in the objective compatibility between those couples who are unhappy and those who are happy”.
Dr. Ted Hudson went on to say that couples who were feeling happy said that compatibility wasn’t an issue for them. In fact, they were perfectly ok saying that it was them who made the relationship work not the compatibility. But unhappy people went on to say that compatibility is extremely important in their relationship and they dint feel compatible with their significant one.
This study doesn’t give me any interesting facts to me except the repeated survey of psychologists. So I can conclude that there is no such person like soulmate, who just exists only on the imagination.
My own survey from my blog, I have the below result.
the breezing salty air,
melting the hearts,
trembling bodies of arts,
trying to make a pair,
hands and fingers are caressing,
the love waves of the sea is singing-
the melodies of your moaning.
moonlight is mounting on your body,
making shine of lovely fondling,
behind a silver screen of nature,
we stand, tug and hug each other,
as long as the night is on guard,
we are making love of fervour,
let the moon shed her shower,
we will be wet all over-
with the drizzles of our pleasure.
சின்னதாய் ஒரு சிற்றோடை
உன் நெற்றிப்பொட்டு வியர்வை !
Fire in your eyes,
Folded us onto one on one,
Quenched our thirst.
Note: I wrote in my dream and penned on the phone on the way and posted from the office !
The foot path we left,
In the sea-shore, on the sands
The breath, we left,
In the spring, on the breeze
The kisses we shared,
On the beaches, on the sun loungers
The love we planted,
In the parks, In the gardens
The words we talked,
On the flights, on the air
The fights we had,
In the trains, In the buses
The lust we shared,
In the nights, on the bed
The quarrels we had,
At the hotels, on the restaurants
The days we had,
Been together, being hugged
The dream we had,
For today, for tomorrow
The day we planned,
For honeymoon, for appetite
The eyes you liked,
Every moment, every second
The lips you kissed,
In the morning, in the evening
All been left alone,
And they are asking,
Why did you leave me alone?
I hold my tears,
Dear, I tell them,
I hate you!
I hate you,
You are not sinned,
I hate you,
You are good to them,
I hate you,
You are mine,
I hate you,
I don’t want to hurt you,
I wait and tell them,
We will be back again.
Upon a stranger smile,
Tender feet kissed mother,
A girl’s glance everyday,
Father’s care of daughter,
Unknown follower’s unexpected appreciations,
Employer who cares you,
Unlimited unexpected uncontrollable heart,
A guy’s only expectation,
Undefined value in soul,
Carried in coming births.
Words will shed as tears,
Every feeling of you, written and be,
Rolling as river of rain.